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The gift of a long walk
The older I get, the more I’m intrigued by walking.
May 30
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On talking to strangers
When I was a student at university, I’d regularly take low-cost flights back home.
May 24
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Ben Detalle
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The journey to who you already are
My journey of discovering my essence. I feel what I have within, even if I can’t (yet, at least) put it into clear words. I know it's there.
May 15
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Going alone through the darkness
No one will give you the validation you so desperately crave because no one else is walking this path but you. Find that nugget of self-belief and…
May 8
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There's always a last time
There will always, without fail, be a last time something happens. This realisation is profound because it has the power to completely alter your…
May 1
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April 2026
When your routine breaks, show up anyway
When your plans change, the important thing is, how are you going to react? Your intent to continue, your willingness to adapt, is key.
Apr 24
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Ben Detalle
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Are you being listened to?
What we need are spaces of listening. Spaces where we give nonjudgmental attention to another being who is yearning to share something deep within.
Apr 17
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Your emotions don't need to be fixed
Our emotions are not to be run away from. They’re our friends, trying in their own idiosyncratic ways to tell us what’s important to them. It’s up to us…
Apr 10
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Be careful of the labels you put on yourself
What if your labels are achieving nothing more than limiting your ability to explore all that life has to offer? How might we show up if we stopped…
Apr 4
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Ben Detalle
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March 2026
Pick your poison
The idea of a life with no problems is an illusion.
Mar 31
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You are your most important project
You probably have a ton of things you want to get done.
Mar 27
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Your Life is a Work of Art
Years ago, I remember watching an interview with the alpinist Reinhold Messner.
Mar 23
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Ben Detalle
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